LA Metrolink 411.....

Ok today I took the Los Angeles Area Metrolink train into work and it brought back an awesome story that I have to share with you all. I will have to write this tomorrow, but trust me its an awesome story. Its something that I still to this day can't believe ever happened. I will give you a little hint, it included a very mature women of color (black) who is 10 years my older. Due to this event I now have a desire for mature black women. Ok well I will write more tomorrow.....

Life is keeping me away.....10 year anniversary SUCKED!!!!!

Hey folks, I am still here, but life has gotten in the way of my blogging effort. I have so busy at work that I have had no time to do anything but work sleep and work some more. Well I just wanted to let you all know I am still here, at least for those of you who are still around and have not left me. I hope that I can get back here real soon. So with that here is what has happened recently.

My 10 year anniversary was a few weeks back, and if you remember I asked my other half that it would be nice to go to vegas together and I was rejected. Yeap you can see it in my older post, check it out if you like. But I don't get it. I offered and was told no. I do not know what or why she said no but it sucked!!!!

So on our anniversary I went to the flower-mart in downtown LA and bought her nice 2 dozen roses, one dozen red and one dozen white. I also got some really nice purple flowers that smell awesome. Well that night I had a few late meetings at work that I just could not get out of, so I head home with the roses in hand as well as a card. She is in the Theater room of the house when I come in, so I walk in and hand them to her she smiles and says thanks. She takes them and heads into the kitchen, places the flowers on the counter and walks away. Now when I say I got home late it was late for me, I leave for work at 4:30 am and usually get home around 5pm, but that night I got home at 9:30 pm. I was beyond tired but I knew that this was a special night. Well I expected her to give me a card or say anything but got nothing....no card, nothing. Well around 10:30 I head to bed and thought she would follow suit, since the kids were all asleep. Well 11 pm passes, 11:30 passes and then midnight passes and still not coming to bed. Well I get up and go ask her if she was coming to bed and I catch her on the damn computer....thats right on our fucking anniversary she is on the fuckin computer. I see her on it and make a comment that I hope whoever she is speaking to is more important than being with her husband on our anniversary night. Well she finally comes to bed, and I try to get her to play, but she would have none of it. She tells me that she is tired and just wants to go to bed. Well What the FUCK!!!! oh well on my anniversary night as she layed there in bed sleeping....I spanked the monkey....yeap that's right I chocked the chicken....

Well the next day I am off and I get up and go to the kitchen and guess what I see..the flowers I bought her not on the dinning table or in the living room, but just sitting on the kitchen counter the same place she placed them the night before. I don't get it....maybe I am the fool but I am willing to try anything to make this work. I am not looking for a way out, I am willing to do anything to make this work..but I just don't get it. I may not be the best husband in the world when I am not home but whenever I am home I do everything to treat her like a million dollars. Like I said I just don't get it.....and actually I did not get it that night either...oh well....

Happy Hallmark Holiday....

Its been a few weeks since I have been on her, I have been sick and have missed typing about my life, but with tomorrow being what I call a Hallmark Holiday I just had to write.

I think that the 14th of February is one of the worst days of the year. I cant stand women that tell me that, "if my man knows whats good for him, he better get me roses, candy, gold and dinner on Feb 14." I laugh, smile and walk away shaking my head. Why is 1 day a year soooo important? WHY???

So when your partner, husband, squeeze, boss, co-worker, pool boy, or whoever tells you they love you on any other day than Feb 14, does that lessen the words or thought? I tell my wife I love her all the time and I still get nothing for it. So why am I going to make Feb 14 a big deal? I surprise her by buying gifts. I take her dinner, give her body massages, clean the house, do the laundry and I still get nothing. Maybe I should be a total ass to her, treat her like shit, don"t clean and don't do any of the stuff I do. Then maybe then she will change. But that is not my style or the way I was brought up. I just don't get it.... anyways....


So those of you who think you deserve to treated like a million dollars on Feb 14, get a life. So when your special someone does that on March 1, April 2, June 28 or whenever do you say," yeah that's nice but why didn't you do this on Feb 14?" No you take all that is given to you and you should treasure it.

Bottom line is this, Treasure the ones who love you, it does not matter what the date is, take it and enjoy it. If you only get a card and one rose, tell him/her/them, Thank YOU! Times are tough not everyone can or should spend $$$. As for my wife, all she is getting is a card, that's it. No dinner, no gold, no roses and I will sleep great tomorrow night.

Enjoy your weekend, I hope you have a blast and get all you can.. I will be back,,, early next week. I hope to have a new story to fill you all in with.

Mary(previous post) I know you are here now, and thanks for your positive words. I cant wait to write all about our hookup. Till then....TTFN.....

How was your weekend?

Well I had a real boring weekend, but I did have time too myself.....who ever said loving one self is wrong...is just not doing it right. I also tried again to bring up the Vegas trip...and was once again blown off. Well I will keep trying, till then I better buy another bottle of Malibu Rum, some more lube and keep the damn dvd player running. I was lucky enough to see one of my readers on Saturday and man did she look GREAT! You know who you are! You looked hot & sexy!!!!

MILF's around me & life updates.....WTF?!?

In one of my previous post I wrote that I am very involved in a youth sports group in the city where I live well on Saturday we had registration for the upcoming season. Well one of our readers is from that group and she showed up looking as sexy as hell and your jeans and your sexy ass was noticed by not just me, but by a few other men who where there at the park. One of which wants your son on his team so he can get to try to meet you. ;)

But there was one MILF that was there that caught my eye and she knew it. This women is in her late 30's, tall 5-10, latina (with all the right curves) and she has just lost some serious weight and I would say she is probally 150-160 , but with her height she looks great! Well she shows up and walks over and says her hellos to everyone there and then she makes her way to me. We hug and I whisper into her ear, "WOW you look great, you look like a million dollars!" She pulls back and smiles and then tells me, "thank you for your kind words, can we talk privately later?" Well what would you say? Of course I told her yes. So about an hour goes by and she walks over to me ask if I could walk with her so she can talk about stuff going on in her life. Well, we walk and talk and I give her the advice she needed regarding a male friend and his ex-girlfriend. As we get done I once again give her props on her looks, well all she can say is thank you, at least someone noticed how I look. I ask what does she mean and she says that nobody, not even her other half has said anything to her about it. Well I smile and tell her well this year people will notice and it will make her other half a bit uneasy when she is doing her job. With that we walk back to the big group and seprate but as we began to do so, she walks back over to me and smiles and once agian gives me a nice hug and says thanks for the kind words. I could tell my words got her excited because for next 3o minutes all we did was make eye contact every chance we got and smile at each other.

As for any updates from I was expecting to list this week, I was down for the count with that damn cold/flu bug going around LA County and was in bed (alone) all week. But I hope to have some updates this week, so check back often.

One more thing happened last night, I was speaking to the wife and told her we need to get away for a weekend, just the two of us. I suggest Las Vegas for our anniversary which is next month. I told her it would be fun and what ever happens in Vegas, well you know the rest. She tells me "NO." I could not belive my ears, but I was turned down for Vegas from my own wife. WTF?!?!?!?!? I dont know if she was having a bad night or day but we had a good afternoon together, I just did not expect to hear that. I mean she is not working or anything so thats not an issue. So after she tells me NO she tells me shes going out "Scrapbooking." Well she leaves at 6 pm and does not come home until 2:30 am. I trust her and know the women she is hanging with but damn, if I did that I would be in the dog house. I will try again to ask her to go to Vegas in a few days and see what happens. Man I just dont know......

Who knew I still have it....

Ok, so last night my buddy, Jay, I wrote about him in a previous post, well he calls and ask me to meet him and his sig-other for some drinks at a local Applebees.  Well the 2nd NFL game was getting ready to start so I was off to watch the game and have a few drinks.  I arrive and see they are sitting at the end of the bar, and next them was a seat with a purse on it and next to that was a very good looking 26 year old Mexican/Indian (red feather not red dot) lady with breast the size of frickin honeydews.  It looks like she is saving the seat for someone so I decide to grab a bar stool and kinda make room, but as I do the 26 year old, who I call Vivian, tells me I could sit there, she was alone and not waiting for anyone.  

Well I sit and thank her for moving her purse and then turn my attention to Jay and his sig-other.  Well as I am sitting at the bar my ex is texting me and wanting to pick a fight about the kids.  I began telling them about her wanting to pick a fight and what the fuss was all about.  As I do Vivian makes a comment about the conversation and began to join in on the discussion.  Well after talking for about an hour Vivian moved her stool closer to mine and reached down and removed a piece of string off my sweater (talk about some great signs).  Well Jay is ready to leave and I usually leave when they leave as I hate drinking alone.  Well Vivian sees that we are starting to pack up to leave and ask me what I had planned for the next few hours.  Well I look at her and ask her what her plans are, she says, "I am just going to go home and relax before I meet my GF's later tonight."  Well I then tell her, " I guess I am going to go over to your place and watch the rest of the game."  Well she paused for all of 2 seconds and said that's fine with me.  As we walk out to our cars (she is parked just one row from me) she asks, "Are you married?"  Well I am one never to lie to anyone and tell her,"YES."  As I answer I show her my ring, which I had on the entire time in the bar and which never comes off my finger.  She smiles and just says, "well I am cool with that, just follow me, we have to go about 6 miles to her apartment.  

Well she was right it was only 6 miles away and we arrive there in about 10 minutes.  As we pull up to her place she stops and tells me where to park and where to wait for her.  Well I do as I am told and after a few minutes we are in her apartment.  We walk in and I can see she has a clean place, but that she has a young child and a room mate, neither whom are home.  Well she grabs me a beer and we go out on the patio so she can smoke.  Well after being on the patio for about 10 minutes we head inside and sit on the sofa together.  

Now let me describe Vivian for you, she is about 5-6, about 150 lbs, with HUGE breast, brown eyes, and a light natural tan, with long highlighted hair.  She had her nails painted on her feet in a dark red and a french manicure on her hands.  Now when I say HUGE breast I mean HUGE....the size guys look at and must take not one but two looks at as she walks past them.  They were frickin HUGE!

Well we sit on the couch and start to watch the end of the football game.  Well after watching the game I just leaned into her and began to kiss her.  Kiss we did, it was a long make out session and damn it felt good.  Know I am sure some of you are waiting for me to type about the hot fuck session we had, but that did not happen.  All we did for about 30 minutes was make out.  I was not prepared to go all the way, since I don't carry any rubbers on me any more.  But it was nice.  She liked to bite or tug on my lips and we kissed and damn it felt good.  I knew she was going to go out and meet her GF's when they got off work, so I decided I had better get going.  As I leave she tells me that she would love to continue our little encounter another day if I am willing to call her or text her back.  Well all I know I must of made an impression because this morning I got a text hello from her.  I am sure this story will be continued I am just not sure when I will get a chance to hook up with this frickin Sex Kitten......

Update cuming soon......

Having some photo issues on the blog today. Not sure whats going on. I hope to have several updates by the end of the week, as I try to close the deal on one if not a few of friends. Till then have a great week and PLEASE be safe on New Years Eve...